Hi
As i understand it is, you are pushing electric into the grid that your "local neighbours" are not using so you have to push it further down the line.
If there is more solar than users the grid voltage will rise.
You should not exceed 253v pushing out.
Personally you don't want this as your washer/fridge/tv etc. are under pressure from high voltage as they will probably be rated 250v max.
Your inverter shuts down at 253v to protect against this for you and your neighbours.
Problem is if Mr Jones 3 doors down on the same phase as you has solar and has set his to push out upto 257v yours will shut down first at 253v.
DNO take a grim view of anyone pushing more than 253v out and could/should refuse to accept any of your generation.
With more and more people getting solar this is getting more and more common and are now refusing 3.68kw solar in some areas in the UK now.
Pushing 257v and buying a new washer/fridge every 2 years as you/your neighbour have frazzled them to gain export of an extra £100 per year could be a false economy.
Just saying
as I have same issue